Estrogen, Progesterone & You: A Beginner’s Guide to Your Feminine Hormones
- Julia Friesen
- Jun 14
- 3 min read

If you’ve ever felt like your body is working against you—mood swings, breakouts, low energy, painful periods—you’re not alone.
But here’s the truth no one taught us in school: Your hormones aren’t the enemy. They’re the key to your glow, your calm, your cycles, your sensuality.
Understanding your feminine hormones—especially estrogen and progesterone—is like being handed the manual to your body.
Let’s walk through the basics of these two powerful hormones, what they do, and how to support them.
Meet Your Feminine Hormones
1. Estrogen: The Glow Creator
Estrogen is the hormone most people associate with being “feminine.” And for good reason—it’s responsible for many of the traits we link with femininity:
Radiant skin
Curves and softness
Lubrication (skin, joints, vaginal health)
Stable moods
Libido
Strong bones
Brain sharpness
Estrogen rises in the first half of your cycle (follicular phase) and peaks around ovulation, giving you that energetic, magnetic, glowing feeling.
But when estrogen is too high (estrogen dominance) or too low, things can feel off.
Signs of imbalance:
Acne (especially on jawline)
PMS & mood swings
Painful or heavy periods
Water retention
Anxiety or low libido
2. Progesterone: The Peacekeeper
If estrogen is the vibrant “spring,” progesterone is the soothing “autumn.” It rises in the second half of your cycle (luteal phase) and is only made if you ovulate.
Progesterone brings balance. It’s the calming, grounding hormone that supports:
Restful sleep
Inner calm
A regular cycle
Fertility & implantation
Anti-anxiety effects
Reduced inflammation
When progesterone is low, estrogen becomes dominant by default—leading to irritability, anxiety, and a feeling of being overwhelmed for no reason.
Signs of low progesterone:
Short cycles or spotting before your period
Trouble sleeping
Anxiety or restlessness
Breast tenderness
Irregular ovulation
Trouble getting or staying pregnant
Why the Balance Matters
Estrogen and progesterone are like two dancers—they need each other. When they’re in sync, you feel:
Glowy
Grounded
Sensual
Stable
Soft yet strong
But when they’re out of balance, your whole system feels off. Not just physically, but emotionally.
The truth is: your hormones are your feminine energy. They affect how connected, calm, creative, and confident you feel in your body.
What Throws Them Off?
There are many factors that disrupt this delicate hormonal harmony:
Chronic stress (hello, cortisol)
Blood sugar imbalances
Poor sleep or overtraining
Xenoestrogens (fake estrogens in plastic, perfume, etc.)
Not ovulating (often due to stress, under-eating, or coming off the pill)
The good news? Hormones respond quickly when supported the right way.
How to Support Estrogen & Progesterone Naturally
1. Support ovulation
You must ovulate to make progesterone. That means reducing stress, eating enough, and avoiding overtraining.
2. Balance your blood sugar
Every time your blood sugar crashes, cortisol rises—and progesterone drops. Eat protein, fat, and fiber at every meal.
3. Ditch endocrine disruptors
Avoid plastics, synthetic fragrances, and conventional beauty products that mimic estrogen.
4. Prioritize rest & safety
Your body won’t ovulate or produce calming hormones if it feels unsafe. Daily nervous system care (like slow walks, sunlight, gentle touch) makes a difference.
5. Track your cycle
Use an app or a journal to track your ovulation, cycle length, symptoms, and patterns. Knowing your cycle is a radical act of self-connection.
Final Thoughts
Your hormones don’t need to be a mystery. They are your internal rhythm—your glow, your softness, your power.
When you work with your cycle, you begin to feel like yourself again.
Balanced.
Bright.
Feminine.
This is the biology behind feminine energy: Not fluff. Not trends. But real, living chemistry—designed for you to thrive.
With love and flow,
Julia
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